Kuraġġ - Courage
By on May 1, 2010 9:34 PM
My dear Aunty Peppa was my Nanna's sister in-law and best friend. She was ninety-seven years old when she passed away last weekend and her funeral yesterday was one of the most moving I have ever attended. Her life was testimony to the incredible faith and unconditional love that she possessed and shared with all those who encountered her.
Josephine or 'Peppa' as she was affectionately referred to by those who loved her, lived a long life that was often filled with tragedy, heartache and disappointment. Yet, her steadfast companions in this life were faith, hope and courage.
In her ninety-seven years on this earth Peppa endured two world wars in Malta. Hence, considering that Malta was one of the most intensively bombed areas during the second world war you can then appreciate how terrifying this must have been for young Peppa. Also, at this time Peppa as a young teenager was compelled to raise her younger siblings, after her dear mother tragically passed away during childbirth.
She would then later fall in love, marry and have five children of her own. Peppa watched them grow and in turn marry and have children, as the cycle of life so faithfully continues. But with life also comes tragedy, and so Peppa had to endure what every mother dreads - the death of her own child.
Hence, as she gathered her grandchildren to her side, she looked on helplessly as they buried her dear daughter, who had died suddenly from an aneurysm at
the age of thirty-eight. A few years later, and now in her late
sixties, Peppa chose to leave her beloved Malta, and immigrated to
Australia to help raise and watch over her grandchildren who were now
motherless. The one thing she felt to do in life was to love and
nurture those around her and this she would do even if it meant having
to leave the land of her birth.
Shortly thereafter Peppa had to endure the unthinkable, as once again she had to bury yet another child when her son was tragically and suddenly ripped from this life without warning. In the midst of great grief and despair Peppa did what she knew to do best - she loved selflessly and she stood steadfast in her faith affirming to those around her that 'this too shall pass'.
How does one heal after such loss and heartache?
How does one find the courage to endure in the face of such devastation?
But Peppa didn't just endure, she lived, loved, guided, prayed and faithfully watched over the next generation.
My cousins husband Brett had the ominous task of delivering the eulogy at Aunty Peppa's funeral yesterday. Many things were shared about this incredible woman's life, but there is one thing that stood out that I wanted to share with you. Brett said that he often likened Peppa's heart to a tuning fork and that 'the harder you struck it, the louder it sang'.
For
those of us who had the privilege of knowing and loving Peppa in this
life know that this wasn't a flippant or trite analogy, but was in fact
the truth as this frail, wisen old women had the heart of a lion.
Our world is frightfully full of celebrity, ambition and greed, yet it's people like Peppa who are the real stars in this life. You know what I'm talking about and you know who they are when you meet them, because your life is changed for the better for having known them.
Josephine or 'Peppa' as she was affectionately referred to by those who loved her, lived a long life that was often filled with tragedy, heartache and disappointment. Yet, her steadfast companions in this life were faith, hope and courage.
In her ninety-seven years on this earth Peppa endured two world wars in Malta. Hence, considering that Malta was one of the most intensively bombed areas during the second world war you can then appreciate how terrifying this must have been for young Peppa. Also, at this time Peppa as a young teenager was compelled to raise her younger siblings, after her dear mother tragically passed away during childbirth.
She would then later fall in love, marry and have five children of her own. Peppa watched them grow and in turn marry and have children, as the cycle of life so faithfully continues. But with life also comes tragedy, and so Peppa had to endure what every mother dreads - the death of her own child.
Hence, as she gathered her grandchildren to her side, she looked on helplessly as they buried her dear daughter, who had died suddenly from an aneurysm at
the age of thirty-eight. A few years later, and now in her late
sixties, Peppa chose to leave her beloved Malta, and immigrated to
Australia to help raise and watch over her grandchildren who were now
motherless. The one thing she felt to do in life was to love and
nurture those around her and this she would do even if it meant having
to leave the land of her birth.Shortly thereafter Peppa had to endure the unthinkable, as once again she had to bury yet another child when her son was tragically and suddenly ripped from this life without warning. In the midst of great grief and despair Peppa did what she knew to do best - she loved selflessly and she stood steadfast in her faith affirming to those around her that 'this too shall pass'.
How does one heal after such loss and heartache?
How does one find the courage to endure in the face of such devastation?
But Peppa didn't just endure, she lived, loved, guided, prayed and faithfully watched over the next generation.
My cousins husband Brett had the ominous task of delivering the eulogy at Aunty Peppa's funeral yesterday. Many things were shared about this incredible woman's life, but there is one thing that stood out that I wanted to share with you. Brett said that he often likened Peppa's heart to a tuning fork and that 'the harder you struck it, the louder it sang'.
For
those of us who had the privilege of knowing and loving Peppa in this
life know that this wasn't a flippant or trite analogy, but was in fact
the truth as this frail, wisen old women had the heart of a lion.Our world is frightfully full of celebrity, ambition and greed, yet it's people like Peppa who are the real stars in this life. You know what I'm talking about and you know who they are when you meet them, because your life is changed for the better for having known them.


Oh, dear, people like Peppa are the true celebrities and great people! Your story reminds me of some I have heard about grandparents and great-grandparents and they were so selfless and caring. We can learn so much from them and you are lucky to have known someone like Peppa. At least she lived a long and useful life and lived to see children and grandchildren. A huge hug to you, dear Nanette!
Such a beautiful post on a remarkable woman. It is amazing what she endured and how she made the choice to carry on and live with dignity and grace. It sounds like you were lucky to have known her. I'm sorry for your loss but glad to know your life was touched by such a special person. This is a beautiful tribute. Hugs.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your stories tell of a remarkable woman, inspiration to all around her. I am reminded that it is not the challenges that life throws at us that shape us, but rather it is our reaction to those challenges. Your Peppa sounds remarkable. Love to you.
Words fail me and emotions overwhelm me.
Wonderful and, I'm sure, very well deserved hommage paid to a Blessed Soul by very Special Souls.
May She Rest in Peace and Protect you from above.
My deepest Sympathy on your loss and my sincere Thank you for your generous sharing.
Teresa
Peppa knew what was most important in life-Family and she did everything to keep its heart beating.
Only a strong women like her can keep a family together in the difficult times of her generation and through personal tragedies. A truly touching and moving tribute.
So sorry to hear of your loss, and may Peppa's memory be a continued strength to you and your family.
May we all come to know the people like Peppa in this world, and may we recognize their greatness when we know them.
I'm so sorry for your loss Nanette x What a treasure she was and I have no doubt she has instilled those traits in your family. Family is the most important thing and that appreciation is very much lost these days as you summed it up well in your last paragraph: Our world is frightfully full of celebrity, ambition and greed!
May she rest in peace!
Thank you for sharing this tribute to a truly remarkable person in your family's lives.
This story moved me very much. Please take comfort in having her touch your life in wonderful ways throughout her life, and shaping it amazingly without your consciously knowing.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Family is so important.
moving, gripping and brings tears to my eye. it's the Peppa's of the generation that are the real heroines. bella i am sending you all my warmest hugs and condolences for your loss. but a person like this must be celebrated for living an extraordinary life.
Thank you my dear friend x
Indeed she was a woman of grace and dignity until the end! Thank you bella for the hugs x
She was truly remarkable Ganga and we all have so much to learn from this one extraordinary life x
Grazzi ħafna Teresa x
Grazzi ħafna Joel!
Grazzi ħafna sabiha!
Thank you Deb x
Peppa's funeral was nothing short of a celebration of one extraordinary life! Thanks Meets for your kinds words and warm hugs x